6 Tips for Shooting a Personal Day in the Life

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I shot my first personal day in the life in the fall of 2014. That day was challenging and exhausting but as soon as I uploaded the images and started culling and editing the final project to turn in for my workshop I knew I was hooked. As someone who had tried and failed at 30 day projects (much less a 365 day project) something about taking many images in one day made it so much more achievable than taking one photo each day.

boy at window with dog

So this became my project: One day, every month I would shoot a personal day in the life. I call it the “Here and Now” and while I’m currently a bit behind in the culling & editing, I’ve kept it up for a little over two years. There is only one rule; I shoot one day every month, no matter what. I don’t make plans to make the day more photographically interesting. And I don’t postpone my Here and Now day to wait for plans to develop, if I did, the month would fly by without me realizing it. I aim for it to happen on the 15th of every month. My life is frequently a blur grocery trips, loads of laundry, and arguing with small people so sometimes the 15th comes and goes before I know it. Then I reschedule and shoot as soon as I remember. Sometimes, I know we will have really cool plans for a couple days before or after the 15th and I’ll schedule my day it the life for that day. But mostly my day in the life collections are normal days of doing dishes and preschool drop off and pick up. As a result, it’s become a random sampling of our life as our son has grown, our house has changed, and as we’ve added a second child. At times it’s felt daunting; one more task to add to a busy day and another collection of images to add to a personal catalog that I’m already painfully behind in editing. But I press on and once I do get the images culled, edited, and blogged it never fails to be incredibly heartwarming to relive that day and reflect on what is happening in our lives as part of a bigger picture.

boy rides bike in driveway

Over the past two years I’ve come away with several tips and take aways that have made shooting each day a little easier and a little more meaningful. Here are my top 6:

1. Make it logistically easy and plan ahead. If you have options in the gear department, go light. Pick your smallest body and one lens. (I’d suggest your widest lens, I use either a 24mm or a 35mm.) Place it at your bedside the night before so it’s right there when you wake up; accessible for you to take your first shot of the day and also a reminder that this is the day you are shooting.

father jokes with sondog asleep amongst toys

2. Create some limits for yourself and be forgiving. Don’t feel pressure to document every single thing; especially if you know you are prone to overshooting. Considering limiting yourself to 5 or 6 frames per moment/activity. And if you get caught up in your day and forget that your camera is sitting next to you then don’t even worry about it. It happens to the best of us. Just pick it back up, take a shot, and carry on.

boy kicks up feet in chair

boy struggles to open door

3. Make it dated. There is this concept in photography that there is value in making an image “timeless”; which means to make sure the frame is devoid of anything that might clearly place the image in a certain decade. Your day in the life is no place for timelessness. Make sure to get images including your phone, your car, the TV playing your kid’s current favorite cartoon or the fact the Olympics were on that summer. Capturing a day in the life is all about capturing a point in time and you can’t do that without embracing the current fads, technology, or world events.

boy lounges on couch while tv is on

4. Shoot what matters, not just what is pretty. By all means, shoot beautiful light streaming in through your windows. Shoot the quiet moment of your child playing in their clean room before they pull out all the toys. Just don’t limit yourself to those images. What matters most doesn’t always happen in the most convenient manner for a photographer. Shoot it anyway. For example, the image below was shot when we were in the process of getting our cat diagnosed with lymphoma. She had just come back from getting an ultrasound and I wanted to make sure I got a picture that showed her shaved belly and paw. Not every image in your day will be a work of art, a few images will be the equivalent of a visual post-it note to remind you of something that was important to you in one way or another and those images are equally as important as the pretty ones.

sick cat in sunlight

child bored at grocery store

5. Have an objective. Shooting a full day can be overwhelming. It can be too open ended at times. I’ve found it helps to use your day to work on a larger skill; layering, color theory, or seeing in black & white. Having an objective in the back of your mind can help keep you motivated and focused as you go about your day.

strollers at Seattle aquarium

son sits as father pours soup

6. Be present. This is both a tip and a benefit to shooting a day in the life. There is a lot of talk about how photography can take you out of the moment but it can also help bring you into the moment too. So many times I rush through my day flitting from one task to the next without taking a moment to stop and examine what’s happening around me. If you are dedicated to shooting your day, you cannot do this. You have to be present and be looking for frames and moments to document. If you are sitting to work at your computer you have to stop, check in, and decide how you want to visually represent working. And if you notice your child quietly playing you will have the motivation to pause and soak in that moment while shooting your 5 frames. Then, maybe you’ll do as I’ve done on many of my day in the life days, and decide the dishwasher can wait to be loaded as playtime won’t last forever.

boy plays in empty living room

pregnant and working

son holds grandmother's hand

Featured Session – Katrin Küllenberg

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Katrin Küllenberg is a mother of four and a family & wedding photographer based in Germany. As her children grew older her photography business began to play a larger role in her day to day and, although she started her business as a documentary wedding photographer she found that shooting families was still her favorite thing to do. She says she found it “very exciting to come into close knitted families and discover how they interact, what are their roles and relationships among each other, to see how they tick.” She also states that her goal as a photographer is to help her clients “discover themselves, to notice the familiar but also find out something new.”

Today we are featuring a few images from one of her sessions, but you can check out more of her work on her website, Facebook, and Instagram.

mother struggles to feed baby - Documentary Family Photography

Carrie: I love the idea of wanting your clients to discover something new about themselves through your photography. Can you give us an example of this that perhaps a client has shared with you after they viewed their photos?

Some clients told me that the images make them see their family from an outsider’s point of view. I show them a lot of special moments they have been taking for granted but now those seem like a precious gift that they tend to value more.

Especially parents with several children suddenly notice the special characteristic traits of each kid and his/her standing in the family, things they sometimes failed to see in their everyday routine.

kid with toy lawnmower - Documentary Family PhotographyErika: I love the unconventional crops you choose to submit. Are you generally setting up the compositions in camera or are they more a decision in post?

When I started with photography I tended to crop a lot in post but after all those years now I hardly ever need to. I compose in camera and slightly adjust my angle while shooting. I control results directly on my LCD and have noticed that not having the camera in front of my eye the whole time also frees my vision. I check my monitor but also register what is happening outside the range of my lens. I usually know what I am looking for in an image but I think that only comes from experience, meaning you have to practice a lot.

girl has quiet moment - Documentary Family PhotographyLisa: You’ve captured great quiet moments. I myself am drawn to those as well. How do you approach a family that is more chaotic and less quiet?

Chaos is growing with the number of kids in a family. I love photographing big families where a lot is happening. I have four kids myself so I am used to it. For me the problem is rather that one tends to concentrate on the kids who put on the show. Lively kids are easy for a photographer, you just have to follow them and you can be sure something wild or weird will happen. I try to get close to the action even when it is getting rough sometimes, but in general, chaos is perfect for the photographer. You don’t have to think a lot about what you are doing – great moments are happening and you just have to capture them with your camera.

But I sometimes really have to force myself to give due to all the kids in a family. There often is a quiet one who prefers to stay apart, to read or draw and for a photographer this can be “boring” visually. But this is important stuff, too, as it shows the character of that child. So, for me, it is far more demanding to render those moments in a profound and creative way, to show the beauty of a quiet moment. In those situations it is very important that you know how to compose an image and not just simply snap a picture and be done with it.

kids work on puzzle - Documentary Family PhotographyChrystal: I noticed you used a lot of lenses. Are you typically switching lenses throughout the session or do you stick with a favorite for the majority of the time?

I usually have six lenses and two cameras with me. I mostly use prime lenses indoors when there is bad lighting and take my two zoom lenses (12-40mm and 40-150mm) when we are outside. I noticed that inside the house kids don’t mind you being close to them but when they are playing outside they want to run around and be on their own.

My favourite lenses are my 12mm, 17mm and 25 mm ( that means 24mm, 35mm and 50 mm fullframe). I know, this does not sound like a great variation but depending on the rooms I am working in a change in lenses can sometimes be crucial. Standing in a tiny bathroom with four other people will have you coaxing the most out of your 12 mm whereas a big living room can leave you happy with your 25 mm.

baby pulls mother's hair - Documentary Family PhotographyAniya: Love this session. I see your patience in the images, and I can imagine you waiting quietly for moments. I also see that you make moments when your subjects are completely unaware of you and you use elements to frame and shoot through (the flowers and the kiddos playing, and then the glass framing the little girl reading).

But on the flip side, you aren’t afraid in anyway to get extremely close, as seen where the mom is feeding her son, and then the son is pulling moms hair?

Do you prefer one way of shooting over the other? Are you equally comfortable getting close to your subjects and keeping your distance, and how do your clients feel about you getting right in there?

Often I only notice how close I have gotten to people when culling my images. During the session I do not feel uncomfortable and my clients tell me they didn’t either. My advantage is that I am using a small camera. I am working with the Olympus OMD – EM 1 and use the tilting LCD a lot. I can see the image live on the monitor, adjust the composition, light, focus, etc. and so it is not my full face that is close to the mom and kid but just the camera. I think this helps me a lot not to physically cross certain lines of privacy. When I am witnessing a quiet moment, e.g. the mother trying to put her baby to sleep, I switch the camera into silent mode though risking more shutter shock.

I usually stick to one position for quite some time to see how a moment will work out before changing position, so I am not running around hectically but try to change my position rather slowly.

I love getting real close, especially when parents are cuddling their kids but sometimes it will take some time for the kids to adjust to it. The mothers know not to look into the camera but a lively two-year old will often try to put on a show for the camera. I never tell them they should stop it but I simply switch to silent mode and not gratify their behaviour with a “click”. That way they quickly lose interest in me and get on with what they were doing in the first place.

But I want to show all aspects of my clients’ lives so I also step back a lot to show more context: the place they live in, people interacting with each other. And, of course, during the course of a whole day, there are times when not much is happening. That gives me the opportunity to look for interesting angles and compositions which otherwise might get lost in the action.

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IG Community Post- February

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Welcome to month two of our new feature from our Instagram community! Keep on hashtagging your documentary family images to share. This month’s top honor goes to Lindsay Marie Photos. Make sure to stop by her page, and the pages of all our Top 5 artists to check out more of their wonderful work.

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Patience and slow growth have made me a better photographer

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Let’s start this off with a good ole confession: I’m not as patient as I claim to be.

I grew up practicing patience. I learned it from my Dad, the most patient person I know. He does everything slowly and deliberately (my mom would say too slow!). I always admired that about him. When I was younger, I would ask him a question and it might take him 10 minutes to craft a response. He thought about what he wanted to say and made sure it perfectly represented him, always with a calm and soothing demeanor. I wanted to be like that too.

Fast-forward to having children and I knew my “patience” quality would take me very far. WRONG! Patience with kids requires practice and let’s just say, I haven’t been the best student. 🙂

I rediscovered patience during my photography journey.

When you strip away some of the creative and technical aspects, the essence of creating a good photograph lies in waiting for something: the right lighting, a decisive moment, or an interesting composition.

Waiting is not something we have come accustomed to doing in this modern age where it’s all about speed, efficiency, and recognition. We try to rush the photographic process. With digital photography and social media it means we go out and take photos, get something we think we like, immediately process it, and upload it online. But a week or so later, we realize the photograph wasn’t as good as we thought it was.

If you decide you want to pursue photography seriously, you learn that immediate gratification doesn’t always come.

The best option we have to become better photographers is to use time to our advantage.

Here are a few ways I’ve learned to slow down in my journey and how they’ve helped me be a more patient artist:

I keep my gear  limited.

My current gear consists of the following of one full-frame camera (Nikon D750 and one prime lens, Nikon 50 1.8). That’s it. I have a backup camera, but I never use it. You don’t need a lot of gear to a be a good photographer. It’s about working with what you have. And in my opinion, it’s better if you start that process without having a lot of fancy gear to get in the way of what truly matters, the subject, and how you want to approach creating the image. It can be intimidating for me not having all the fancy gear that my peers have, but it’s not practical or cost-efficient for me to do right now. I rent lenses depending on the type of shoot. I’ve still been able to book clients, take images I love, and contribute to several photography groups with just one lens.

I don’t let the number of clients I have determine my value.

Clients don’t equal talent. Did you have one client that you loved to shoot this year? Celebrate that! Continue to hone your skill and find the people who appreciate your vision. ’As long as you are working with people who love your work and are willing to pay your price, you can have a successful business with fewer clients.

I choose education carefully.

So, this is something I had to learn the hard way. There are so many options for education now. You can go the traditional route at a college or university or be self-taught like myself. But, if you want to take your art to the next level, you have to invest in education. I wasted a lot of money in the beginning buying presentations, online workshops, and e-books that all shared the same information. I didn’t know what to choose and it can be overwhelming to weed through the vast list of options… all claiming to help you master a certain skill.  Now that I’ve been around the block a few times, I go about education choices differently. I thoroughly research any instructor, what they are offering, and how it will help me. I set a budget for education and focus on learning a skill where I feel I have a weakness. Remember, no mentorship, new shooting concept, or preset can help you be a better photographer if you haven’t learned the basics and done some internal digging about the type of photos you want to make. Once you figure that out, your images will speak for themselves and you will have a better idea of what you want to learn.

I make time for reflection.

I like to look back old photos and appreciate how much I’ve grown. I hope you do that as well. Congratulate yourself and celebrate your accomplishments! The highlight of my personal growth as a photographer came as I started to reflect less on the images and really started to focus on the reason why I take photos. I’ve learned that I love photographing light and shadow, quiet moments, emotional connection, joy, and individuality. Now that I know that, I immediately see those things and don’t have to try as hard as I used to do to create an interesting photograph.

 I trust the journey.

I have a full-time job, a family and countless other personal obligations.  I am not working to be a nationally acclaimed portrait artist. I simply don’t have the time to devote my every waking moment to learning the craft, so, I don’t. I fit photography into my schedule and I make time for it because it’s important to me. This might mean I have three hours in a month to practice a new skill or that I might be a bit rusty after picking up my camera after a week of rest.

My journey being a photographer is whatever I make it and I’m happy to do it slowly and deliberately, just like my Dad taught me.